Mentions of Homosexuality on the Badi Blog
2008 June 08, 04 Nur, 165 BE
Yesterday's brief discussion of homosexuality as unsustainable behavior provoked the following response from a reader signing himself as "Mavaddat"
"Badi, it seems to me that your whole argument hinges on the presumption that homosexuality must imply promiscuity. Otherwise, not a single thing you wrote has any hope of validity. So for the sake of defending the Baha'i Faith's condemnation of homosexuality, could you justify this assumption for us? That is, why do you assume that homosexuality necessarily means promiscuity? Why is it not conceivable to you that the sexual expression in homosexual relationships could be restricted to after marriage as it is in heterosexual marriages? After all, the more homosexual people are allowed to marry, the less they have sex outside of marriage. So it seems like ... you are for stable marriages and less promiscuity, then you should be in support of gay marriage, not against it. Your position seems rather self-defeating seen in that light, wouldn't you say?"
This was followed by the following feedback from Alexander M Zoltai -- who has been exceptionally supportive of both my work and that of my daughter Silvie, a budding writer and artist; I am grateful to Mr. Zoltai for that. He says,
"You have again set my mind to rumination. Thanks! Mavaddat's comment reminded me that there was an "unsupported" assumption in the essay. I was able to fill in the blanks--"most" homosexuals, what about God's desire for sex to lead to family?, etc. Looking forward to your response to Mavaddat..."
Now I have no choice but to respond! I was going to anyway, RSN, but now I will do it promptly. It is nice to be read.
I do not want to go over ground that I have already covered in past years, so I will summarize and refer you to past essays on this subject over the years. My recent writing can be divided into pre-Badi' Blog and post-Badi Blog, which started up around 2004. For the latter I can give links to the essays in question but the former is not accessible save to those happy few who were on my mailing list at the time and who kept everything I sent out. These older essays I can just give date and title; if there is interest I can rewrite and repost them.
The essay most directly relevant to Muvaddat's point about "marriage" of homosexuals is, "Coverture, The Marriage Scab." This responds to discussion in the press of whether to legalize same sex unions in
What I say here is less important than the history in the included article. Muvaddat would do well to study it carefully.
I can say now that I think the reason that society has been so quick to buy into the gay rights agenda and gay "marriage" is that we have completely forgotten the history of the family as an institution. We imagine that the Victorians were total dummies, and that we are the first to be liberated sexually. This happens every generation, not because we are finally getting it but because we are not reading our history of the family.
As the "Marriage Scab" essay implies, if you do not know what the word "coverture" means, you do not understand the basics behind the issue. Baha'is, especially new believers, find homosexuality a test because we are no less ignorant about the history of this institution than anybody else. I found the brief history of family in this article highly illuminating. If I do any more writing on this subject I will definitely have to delve into the history of family in more depth.
This essay was followed on
Most recently, in "Poverty of Environmentalism Concluded," written on May 28 of this year, I talk about how the provision in the Kitab-i-Aqdas condemning homosexuality evidently kept the UHJ from endorsing the Earth Charter, a document in which Baha'is had participated from the start.
The closest thing I have made to an original contribution to this topic is an essay called "The Gay Paradox," written on
This was a re-write of the main thesis an earlier series of essays called, respectively, On Original Sin (
"Homosexuality; Religious freedom is not absolute," by Lydia Lovric, Hamilton Spectator,
I picked up the theme again on
As far as I can see, none of this is on the Blog. I need a research assistant, is what I need. Anyway, let us concentrate on what is available to you.
At the end of "Lost Years of Feedback, Part I; C.S. Lewis and Homosexuality" I go over old reader's feedback to the above material, one of which mentions Baha'u'llah's strong condemnation of sodomy. This is at:
"This is why it is moral for those who otherwise stand for free choice to deprecate suicide, euthanasia, abortion and homosexuality. Each in its way exercises free will, but it interferes with a culture of welcoming and perpetuating new life. Such abominations to the "life project" cannot long be tolerated."
This hints at why Oscar Wilde's expression "the love that dares not say its name," is really an oxymoron. What negates family, children and new life can hardly be called love at all. Love is whatever creates or enhances new life, it cannot subtract from them and still be worthy of the name.